Marry that person who you can be yourself around, the one you can be easy and silly with. The one who wines and dines your mind with intrigue and wits.
The one who ignites a spark in your soul with the depth of their being and their spiritual attunement to the higher matters of life. The one who engages your feelings with humor and laughter. The one with whom you can both attend a high ticket corporate conference and go home to dance in the rain.
The one with whom you can pray together and then lie down to stargaze and fantasize. The one with whom you apologize to each other after a mishap and then go to jump in the gym together.
In sum, marry your thinking buddy, your playmate, your spiritual companion, your mischievous friend or partner in crime as they’re loosely referred to. All in one person.
Is this realistic or idealistic, you ask? It depends on what you choose to believe and aim at.
Many of us are married to such people. We are such people. We are living such a life. Like every other aspect of life, your love life will be what you decide it to be.
If you listen to the popular opinions your love life will be just average. But if you follow our example and set the bar high, according to your faith it shall be done unto you.