How to Effortlessly Get a ‘Yes’ While Asking a Woman for a Date

Most guys get nervous when it comes to asking a woman for a date. Even the most confident ones, hesitate to make such moves.

Fear for rejection is one of the reasons why many guys make a step back from approaching women they are interested in.

Here are some of the tips that will make your date proposal to a woman easy and smooth;

Have confidence

Let confidence speak out for you. When approaching a girl to ask her for a date, do not fear what to tell her or what will be her reaction. Express confidence and she will actually notice that you’re serious about what you’re about to say to her.

Young interracial couple (18-19 years) hanging out, smiling, and talking. They are sitting outside on the sidewalk in front of an old, brick city building. (iStock)

Put on an impressive outfit

How you dress and keep yourself speaks of who you are. You should also know that clothing makes up a man. How you dress can make a girl be attracted to you before you even express anything to them.

On the contrary, it can be a turn-off which can get them not be interested to spend time with you. You don’t have to really put on a very expensive suit for her to like you.

Dress in whatever style that fits you and which you are comfortable in. Girls actually get attracted to men who look smart and classy.

Keep the eye contact

Eye contact matters while asking for a girl out. Don’t shy off and start looking down or glancing somewhere else while talking to her. Women are attracted to men who are confident in themselves. Your intention is to win her attention, the same way, you should show her that she has all your attention.

Make the approach very simple

Don’t force her to notice you want her. Also don’t tense around on how to approach her and what you are going to say to her.

Get yourself together and approach her as if she was a friend you’ve known before.  Don’t cause tension that will get her uncomfortable.

Make the conversation random, easy, and simple. Don’t make the conversation awkward, instead, allow it to flow to a point when you have to mention the date.

Don’t force it

Women get nervous and shy off sometimes. She might not say yes immediately you ask her. That doesn’t mean they don’t like you either.

This is one of the natural things that happen to women and it makes them feel worthy and not easy to get. If she seems not to agree with your idea at the moment, just don’t force it.

Give her time and ask her to sleep over it.

Gain her trust

You can build trust with her quickly even when you barely know each other and you are not close. Make her realize you are interested in her. Give her that genuine smile that will confirm your emotional feeling towards her and most importantly, make her feel safe with you.

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