Brothers, make sure you marry a woman who is prepared to be a wife, not one who just wants a man. There’s a big difference between the two.
Becoming a woman in a man’s life is a high challenge that needs a lot of preparedness and growth and many women in the dating market are not ready for that.
To get a man, on the other hand, a woman will merely leverage on her feminine charms. She checks what about her that you’re enchanted by and she leans on that.
The same rule applies to sisters to be keen to marry a man who is prepared to be a husband, not one who is merely looking for a woman.
Never marry a person you need to raise. Marry a person who has grown to be on your level, one with who you can continue growing together.
If you need to raise a person it means they’re unready for the responsibility of marriage or they’re below your level.
Men make this mistake all the time with younger girls, and women commit the blunder with men who are very dysfunctional and unstable. He appeals to her mothering instincts and she mistakes that for love.
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