Written by Benjamin Zulu. Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and Life Coach. Sometimes a lady will tell me her husband won’t allow her to work because he believes when women are exposed to money and men they become prostitutes. Or he
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Someone has asked what to do because her relationship is straining due to her male friends. Her partner is uncomfortable with her associating with them but she doesn’t think it’s reasonable to cut off one’s friends. She says that they
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Your job as a partner is to make sure that he/she does not need another person. That is, that their needs are not going unmet. And of course, we’re referring to needs, not greed. Everyone must manage their greed or
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Isn’t it sad how often people try to find a soulmate before they find their own soul? You don’t invite guests to your house when it’s still under construction, do you? It’s still messy and rugged and inhospitable. And so
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Thanks to the Almighty God for granting us the favor of seeing 2022. As you start your New Year, new months, new styles, and new forms in a jovial way, remember it is not quite different from other years. What
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Counseling phycologist, life coach, and conference speaker Benjamin Zulu has cautioned against building a marriage life where there is only love but no loyalty and commitment. According to Zulu, marriage cannot be built on love alone. In one of the
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Benjamin Zulu is a Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker, and Life Coach Come around me young people, so that I may tell you what shall befall you in the days to come. I’m borrowing that expression from Jacob and the way
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You may go for holidays and then have this one person who chronically ruins events and you feel frustrated to understand why. Here are some reasons. Narcissistic people are attachment disordered and so they’re uncomfortable with emotional clonesness and vulnerability.
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