Counseling phycologist, life coach, and conference speaker Benjamin Zulu has cautioned against building a marriage life where there is only love but no loyalty and commitment.
According to Zulu, marriage cannot be built on love alone.
In one of the posts on his official Facebook page, the life coach notes that for a meaningful and successful marriage, there must be loyalty and faithfulness, aside from love.

To bring home his point, Benjamin Zulu notes that it is possible for someone to cheat on you continuously, but at the same time, they love you.
“And there’s nothing as confusing as a present who’s hurting you while still claiming to love you,” notes the counseling psychologist.
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“The truth is that they love you in the sense that they want you in their life but they’re not loyal to you,” Benjamin Zulu adds.
Here is his full post on the subject.

“Can someone cheat on you continuously when they still love you? Yes. And there’s nothing as confusing as a present who’s hurting you while still claiming to love you.
The truth is that they love you in the sense that they want you in their life but they’re not loyal to you. And marriage cannot be built on love alone. There must be loyalty and faithfulness.
Many people will want you in their life and even marry you but they’re not prepared to stick with you alone. Never build a life where there’s only love but no loyalty and commitment.”
Benjamin Zulu, Counseling phycologist, life coach, and conference speaker.
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