If you date someone who was married before they should either have divorced or filed for the divorce. Perhaps the other person has long moved on but has this person done likewise themselves? People have made the mistake of believing
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A popular Kenyan Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker, and Life Coach Benjamin Zulu has cautioned against getting involved in romantic relationships that involve paying rent or bills. According to Zulu, such relationships never lead to marriage but s*x. “For purposes of
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One lady said her ex-boyfriend was threatening to splash her explicit photos online if she didn’t ‘go to keep him company for the weekend.’ She was totally done with the relationship and she wanted nothing to do with him but
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One lady said she did a wedding at 23 and I asked if she knew she was rushing, and if anyone tried to warn her. Of course, the marriage turned into a 20-year nightmare. She said her father admitted that
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Most men who date you when they’re married but pretending to be single are usually in it for the sex. They’re selfish enough to use you for as long as you remain fooled. They can even take you to their
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Learning to let go and allow things to unfold is not the same as giving up or resigning to fate. Instead, letting go is a strategy you incorporate in your searching for love and for the life you seek. You
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Again ladies, if you’re planning on getting married stop adding children. Most men I meet don’t want to marry a clan. If you already have one child you’re still eligible for a good guy from the larger number of bachelors
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By Benjamin Zulu – Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and Life Coach. ‘Hi, Benjamin, what does it mean when your boyfriend always asks you “nani alikununulia hii” (who bought you this?) every time he sees you with a new cloth, shoes
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