Written by Benjamin Zulu. Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and Life Coach. Sometimes a lady will tell me her husband won’t allow her to work because he believes when women are exposed to money and men they become prostitutes. Or he
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Someone has asked what to do because her relationship is straining due to her male friends. Her partner is uncomfortable with her associating with them but she doesn’t think it’s reasonable to cut off one’s friends. She says that they
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Your job as a partner is to make sure that he/she does not need another person. That is, that their needs are not going unmet. And of course, we’re referring to needs, not greed. Everyone must manage their greed or
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Isn’t it sad how often people try to find a soulmate before they find their own soul? You don’t invite guests to your house when it’s still under construction, do you? It’s still messy and rugged and inhospitable. And so
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Benjamin Zulu is a Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and, Life Coach One lady asked what she should do because her second child is not her husband’s. That she got it by ‘mistake,’ and by mistake she meant that she took
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Don’t let anyone call themselves your friend if they allow people to disrespect your name when you’re not around. True friendship means I feel for you as if I’m the one being attacked. People who sit comfortably with your enemies
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Counseling phycologist, life coach, and conference speaker Benjamin Zulu has cautioned against building a marriage life where there is only love but no loyalty and commitment. According to Zulu, marriage cannot be built on love alone. In one of the
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Benjamin Zulu is a Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker, and Life Coach Come around me young people, so that I may tell you what shall befall you in the days to come. I’m borrowing that expression from Jacob and the way
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