One lady said she did a wedding at 23 and I asked if she knew she was rushing, and if anyone tried to warn her. Of course, the marriage turned into a 20-year nightmare. She said her father admitted that
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Most men who date you when they’re married but pretending to be single are usually in it for the sex. They’re selfish enough to use you for as long as you remain fooled. They can even take you to their
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Learning to let go and allow things to unfold is not the same as giving up or resigning to fate. Instead, letting go is a strategy you incorporate in your searching for love and for the life you seek. You
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Again ladies, if you’re planning on getting married stop adding children. Most men I meet don’t want to marry a clan. If you already have one child you’re still eligible for a good guy from the larger number of bachelors
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By Benjamin Zulu – Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and Life Coach. ‘Hi, Benjamin, what does it mean when your boyfriend always asks you “nani alikununulia hii” (who bought you this?) every time he sees you with a new cloth, shoes
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When you’re in your 20’s you should throw yourself at something. Be intense and restless. Possess a kind of obsession for greatness in some fields and shun mediocrity in all its forms. You have a blank cheque to write just
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I hope you’re not trying to find a soulmate from someone who has no soul. Some humans are just empty. They’re selfish and lacking in compassion. They only do what serves them and if you look behind them you’ll see
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Sometimes you may be requested to host a young inlaw in the city as they attend college. Sometimes you’re even the ones paying their fees and you may not have enough money to get them a house on their own.
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