Your job as a partner is to make sure that he/she does not need another person. That is, that their needs are not going unmet. And of course, we’re referring to needs, not greed. Everyone must manage their greed or
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Isn’t it sad how often people try to find a soulmate before they find their own soul? You don’t invite guests to your house when it’s still under construction, do you? It’s still messy and rugged and inhospitable. And so
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Benjamin Zulu is a Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker and, Life Coach One lady asked what she should do because her second child is not her husband’s. That she got it by ‘mistake,’ and by mistake she meant that she took
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Don’t let anyone call themselves your friend if they allow people to disrespect your name when you’re not around. True friendship means I feel for you as if I’m the one being attacked. People who sit comfortably with your enemies
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Benjamin Zulu is a Counseling Psychologist, Conference Speaker, and Life Coach Come around me young people, so that I may tell you what shall befall you in the days to come. I’m borrowing that expression from Jacob and the way
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You may go for holidays and then have this one person who chronically ruins events and you feel frustrated to understand why. Here are some reasons. Narcissistic people are attachment disordered and so they’re uncomfortable with emotional clonesness and vulnerability.
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There’s a form of escapism and assumption that will hurt you if you entertain it. Some people notice that their partner is doing suspicious or hurtful things but they have no solid evidence. Or the partner keeps denying and it
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1. They have such a crippling thirst for attention that missing their call is a police case. Yet they miss yours with impunity and no explanations. 2. They suddenly get bored with you and start regretting choosing you. They blame
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